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getting married young.

I may not know what it's like for a gay person to to be told "you're just going through a phase," or "It's not real love," or in any other way, not be able to express their sexuality around certain people - but I think that's how I'm feeling now around my boyfriend's family, because we intend to get married before I'm 25, and before we move in together. Oh, and before we have sex at all, too.
Because his family doesn't support marrying so young, I feel very alone, hopeless, and misunderstood. Hence the comparison to being gay; because it's just another type of relationship- a unique expression of sexuality- a different expression of love.

If the world can accept, support and even fight for marriage equality why can't it do the same for people who want a hetero marriage then they are at a young age. You see for me, sex is not the goal in life. It's not the reason for being in a relationship either. The point of dating is t…

learned the hard way.

Here is a list of things that you can hopefully relate to or learn from. Otherwise, I don't mind if you laugh at me. These are things I figured out on my own by making mistakes. The best way to learn.
♡ The Camera on my phone will never be good enough after using a DSLR.
I tried spending more for my phone to have a better lens to take around with me and for instagram pics, but it just isn't the same.

♡ Don't cuddle the beautiful fluffy dressing gowns in the store.
Especially when you are wearing lint catching clothes. New dressing gowns need to be washed before you can even go near them, otherwise, you'll end up looking like you're meant to be dressed as a multi coloured cat.
♡ Online subscriptions will keep charging you until you cancel.
I made this mistake with BigFishGames when I was paying a monthly fee for what I think is no reason, and because I don't understand the reasons I didn't even know this was happening until I lost more money than I intended.
♡ Chee…